If you stab yourself in the foot, don’t complain it hurts. What I mean by this is, while there are some things in life that we have no control over, there are many more we do. Who we surround ourselves with, what we do in our free time, the thoughts that are constantly running through our minds, it all matters. It’s like putting a bunch of random ingredients in a soup pot and hoping it’s going to taste good. Be aware of what your putting in, how much your putting in, and how it’s going to benefit the whole pot. That way, you don’t end up with soup that taste like crap.